8/8/19
By Chad Denke

Where would the world be if everybody loved unconditionally?

One thing I know for sure is that more people would be alive and more people would need homes. Which is good for me.

What is love, though? Is it what we see on TV? Is it what we feel in our heart?

If you accept love as a whole it’s simply accepting people for whom they are. Even if they irritate the hell out of you, wronged you or don’t see eye to eye with you.

It’s a walk of life that definitely isn’t being sold these days. There’s no money it that.

Instead, people are used as pawns to move people’s own agendas.

It seems like at times people have become numb to love. I see it all the time.

I talk to a lot of clients that have had bad realtors but yet they continue to use them for some reason.

It’s hard for me to figure out. Especially when you are spending several hundreds of thousands of dollars on something.

You would think that you would want someone that at least was looking after your own best interests?

Maybe it’s too hard to find someone that does it right anymore?

Hence the reasoning for self-checkout lines and companies that allow you to just walk in a home without a realtor.

Either way, it’s becoming a lost art. Like a whisper in the wind that every once in a while you get to feel or hear about it.

But when you do you know it’s genuine. It can almost seem foreign or weird to you.

I know I’ve felt that way before. Like “What’s this person’s agenda?” questions going off in my head.

It’s such an odd thing to think something like that. It’s simply not how things should be.

Love should be the standard by which we do everything. But it’s not.
It’s easy to wake up and be a butthead to people. It takes nothing to have a negative thought.

I know I’m guilty of plenty of this in my life. That’s why I’m always practicing the Value-Driven Approach.

Learning to love is like putting on your pants every day. You have to continually do it until it just becomes a part of who you are.

And yes, it has to be put on every day like any good habit.

It’s changed my life.

It can change yours.

Chad

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